Hey....Hows your life?? Are you in job or in business?? What about your income?? He is richer than you... He is most satisfied and is enjoying his life...such a lucky man he is...You can' be like him....you cannot even do, what he already did.. You are worthless... what is special in you... You are a common man...just a normal man running with the crowd.
Yeah ..without a shadow of doubt, I can say, at any phase of life, each one of us has experienced such type of interrogation and it is normal. Is it?
Mostly what we do. We make these useless stuffs a big part of our life. We use to find what is wrong instead of what is right. Isn’t it humiliation? Which leads to depression....
I will show you some dark truth which more or less we face in our regular life.
1. Fact but no evidence
Unfortunately, we all have been surviving with two faces. One is open and another is hidden.. Agree? You know that hidden face is actually more open from inside. I am sure one line you must have heard in social gatherings - I am an open book..LOL....It is just an impressive bookish line like a cheez on breadsticks. Actualy, you are a binded book with many hidden chapters. Yeah.. No one cannot be same at every time. Then, why this hypocrisy? It is a bitter truth, we are living in a society where you can see many different personalities, some are good in pretending and some are bad. Some wear mask and some act smart, some are unexpected and some are artificial. Now, It is your own decision where to go? what to choose? Gripping them so seriously or flush them like a shit.
2. Problems are unanswered questions
Sometimes we freak out with the situation where we can't get solutions of our own queries. You know this is the worst thing ever! Where is the end? How can we face them? Where we stand? What we will do now? How we satisfy our thoughts? And lots of questions frequently drill our mind. Every time we invite stress over a problem, we are basically sabotaging our life. It’s completely unnecessary to ever freak out. No one is playing, we are sole responsible to make our life better or worse.
“A problem is nothing but an unanswered question”. So be relax and stay calm. Remember- Some questions are better left unanswered.
3. Be a warrior of your life
“No one can get everything” and “No one can get anything before it's predetermined time" Yes. True! we need to understand the meaning of our existence. A mantra for satisfactory life is to keep moving forward and accept what we have. Comparing ourself with other will surely make us depressed and despondent. Every one is unique, we have something special unlike others. Determination and a good focus will always help us to survive from these bullets. I strongly agree with one saying- “life is all about fighting with your everyday struggle”. We are a warrior, we have to win. And of course we will win.
4. Connect
Don't stick...push yourself... Press refresh button.. Start new
Our strong connection from whatever we like, will never feel us alone. Sometimes a small effort can gear up your mood. A person can connect with many things…C'mon guys what are you waiting for…. let’s connect via: -
A. God- Spiritual connection will help us to understand what is important to us. A invisible relationship with almighty directly or indirectly provides us the power and strength to cope up with difficult situation. Keep praying.
B. Family- One slap teaches us a life long lesson. Share everything with your family. No one will understand us more than our loved ones. Create healthy atmospher. Keep sharing.
C. Friends- A big smile...No one can replace old friends. Chit chat with friends always relax us. True friendship is all about sharing and caring. Discuss whatever you want with your friends and empty out yourself. Keep Gossiping.
D. Books- Make books your bestie. Read inspirational books, Biographies of leaders will help us to boost our confidence. It gives different perspective to life and definitely reduces stress. Keep reading.
E. Spend “WE Time”- A cup of coffee or tea with some cookies. Find time and talk with yourself. Sometimes answers you seek are actually lie within yourself, we just need to unlock it. Keep hunting.
F. Create hobby- There is no finish point. You can start new anytime. Just divert your mind into your creativity. Yoga, dancing, singing, crafting... Do whatever you want. Spread yourself... Keep flying.
It's factuality
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